I’m sure you’ve heard of curses, as in a gypsy curse or the evil witch cursed me. Some people take them seriously and others simply find them amusing. But the reality is the concept of a “curse” is another form of blockage, and its associated “programming” is equally threatening to your flow.
Let me explain. A few years ago a friend of mine, while successful, was very unsure of himself and felt he could never measure up to either his high-powered girlfriend or their affluent friends. One day he had a psychic reading and the psychic stated that his “lot in life” was to be a jack of all trades and master of none. So since that time he firmly believed that he could not be a success because of what he had heard.
There was even a Seinfeld episode about this. Elaine dated this guy who was good looking but had this reputation for devastating any woman who broke up with him. Well, Elaine broke up and he called her “big head”. Throughout the rest of the episode she was distraught over her “big head” and it was affecting every aspect of her life.
Of course, this goes far beyond a third-party “curse”. Growing up I was constantly told I was a failure, that success was for other people, and that if I try to accomplish anything it will end in disaster and pain. I had internalized this for years, yet my true flow was always fighting to get out. Finally, once I understood my flow, I was able to break free of this programming and find my true success.
The point is that your flow can be severely affected by family, friends, and society stating you are “cursed” one way or another. Such talk can never truly affect your flow, only how you perceive yourself (a blockage) in relation to the world. So listen to your flow and ignore anyone who tells you otherwise!